Planning a wedding is stressful enough without all the added responsibilities and duties of life in general. There are so many different, little decisions that have to be made that can make the wedding seem like a really big deal. For example, does it really matter if you use 20 inch sparklers or 36 inch sparklers for the send off? Any kind of wedding sparklers should work! However, you might need to find out why there are differences. Or at least someone should. That’s one of the suggestions here.
Sit down and write out your color scheme, any themes, a budget and everything else that you want to go into your wedding. You could do this online and use pictures of inspirations or you could do it scrap book style to save as a keepsake later on. However you do it, the idea is that every single one of your plans is together in a physical or virtual book that everyone can refer back to while you are implementing the ideas in there.
Don’t try to do everything yourself. That is impossible. If you try to, you will just end up getting super stressed out and that won’t help anyone. Going back to the first paragraph, if you decide that for your send off, you want to have wedding sparklers, then put that in the book and then let someone else buy those. There’s really no way that you can go wrong with that. However, keep in mind that if you only delegate the things that someone else couldn’t mess up, then you’ll still be stuck with a lot of duties. This is probably the most important of all of the tips. You could follow everything else but if you don’t delegate, you’ll still end up stretched and stressed.
Decide On It
You’ll likely come across a lot choices during the planning and implementing stages. Take your time thinking about it and then once you’re done, make your decision and don’t change it. People may ask you to decide between two or three choices. Make your decisions and don’t go back on them, no matter what. This will only cause more confusion and chaos that could have been avoided if you, simply stuck to your choices. Going back and forth and changing your mind all the time will not only frustrate you but it will also make you second guess everything about your big day and then you’ll end up back at the drawing board.
Once the day arrives, there is nothing else you can do. So, now what you need to do is forget about it all. Forget about the things that weren’t done. Forget about the things that were done that you didn’t like. Forget about it all and focus on yourself and your groom. That’s all that matters in the end. You probably won’t remember the little details in years to come, so why bother yourself about them now? Realize that there is nothing else you can do and accept it. This will help you with the next tip.
It’s important just sit back and have fun. Imagine looking at your pictures years from now and thinking what an awful day it was. You would know that the smiles are forced and really underneath all you could feel was worry and stress. Enjoy the wedding sparklers, enjoy the rice in your hair, enjoy it all because the idea is that you won’t have another one again. Because there is nothing else that you can do once the day arrives, just have a good time.
These five tips will really make a difference to your big day. You don’t want to be the bride that looks back on her wedding with regret. You want to be able to have a good time and really love your memories. Don’t sweat the small stuff. If you need to buy wedding sparklers, don’t beat yourself up if they aren’t smokeless sparklers once they arrive. No one is even going to notice. That’s the main that you need to remember; half the things that you are concerned about, no one else is going to think about.